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Active Listening

As a mental health therapist, I believe that one of the most important skills you can develop is active listening. Active listening is a technique designed to encourage individuals to share their thoughts and feelings openly and honestly. When done correctly, active listening can help you gain a better understanding of a person's perspective and feelings, which can help you provide more effective support.

What is Active Listening?

Active listening is a communication skill that involves giving your full attention to the person who is speaking. It means being fully present in the conversation, focusing on what the speaker is saying, and demonstrating your interest in their perspective. When you actively listen, you try to understand the speaker's message and emotions, and you respond in a way that shows you are paying attention.

Why is Active Listening Important?

Active listening is vital in many different settings, including the workplace. It has been shown that active listening can help to build trust and mutual respect between people, which can foster positive relationships. For example, in a work setting, active listening can help to improve communication and collaboration, which can ultimately lead to better performance.

Active listening is also essential in mental health therapy. Research has shown that a therapist's ability to actively listen to a patient can have a significant impact on treatment outcomes. When a therapist actively listens, they can better understand the patient's perspective and tailor their approach to meet their specific needs.

Tips for Honing Your Active Listening Skills

Here are some tips for honing your active listening skills:

1. Maintain Eye Contact

Maintaining eye contact is essential when practicing active listening. Eye contact lets the speaker know that you are fully present in the conversation and interested in what they are saying. It also helps to establish a connection between you and the speaker.

2. Nodding

Nodding is another non-verbal cue that can help to demonstrate active listening. A simple nod of the head can show the speaker that you are following what they are saying and that you acknowledge their feelings.

3. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Asking open-ended questions can help to encourage the speaker to share more about their thoughts and feelings. Open-ended questions do not have a simple "yes" or "no" answer, but instead, require the speaker to provide more context about their experience. Examples of open-ended questions include "Can you tell me more about that?" and "How do you feel about the situation?"

4. Avoid Interrupting

Interrupting can be tempting, especially when you have a response or solution in mind. However, interrupting can undermine active listening and make the speaker feel disrespected. Instead, let the speaker finish their thoughts before responding.

5. Reflective Listening

Reflective listening is a technique that involves repeating back what the speaker has said in your own words. It shows the speaker that you have understood what they are saying and can help to avoid misunderstandings.

How Can October Help?

At October, we understand the importance of active listening in mental health support. Our digital group sessions, assessments, and content about mental health can help both employers and employees to develop their communication and active listening skills.


Active listening is a vital communication skill that can help to build trust, mutual respect, and positive relationships. Whether you are a mental health therapist or an employee in the workplace, honing your active listening skills can make a significant difference. With practice and attention, you can develop your active listening skills and become a more effective communicator and supporter.

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